АвторWhat you’re ultimately doing is living in a make-believe land. Someone has told you the truth, their lived experience and their reality, but you have replaced what you heard with your version of what you wish were true. We should treat each other as the experts on our own experience, and respect the identities we claim. To do otherwise is to live in denial. The truth will not change no matter how adamant your refusal to see it may be.
Не совсем понял, какую из сторон подъебывает эта цитата, но аргумент теряет валидность, когда у эксперта по своему существованию идентифицируется беда с башкой.