Граф ОрловОт вежливости и добродушности бадушницы текут ещё сильнее.

Труся КнайтиковХермит, ты тут наверное единственный советский сидишь. Вот скажи, есть работа, а есть отдых. Что такое труд?

Труся КнайтиковПотому что тебе 50, а у тебя до сих пор нет квадрика.

АвторWhen you ignore someone’s pronouns and opt for your own, what you are saying is that you do not recognize their identity as authentic, and you are refusing to acknowledge it as such. In other words, you heard their truth, but you are not accepting it. Instead, you are ignoring it. You are saying, “You said this is so, but I don’t believe you, so I will reject your truth and replace it with my assumptions.”

Автор“You said you have a dog, but I like cats, so I’m going to pretend you have a cat. Here, have a bag of cat food.”

АвторWhat you’re ultimately doing is living in a make-believe land. Someone has told you the truth, their lived experience and their reality, but you have replaced what you heard with your version of what you wish were true. We should treat each other as the experts on our own experience, and respect the identities we claim. To do otherwise is to live in denial. The truth will not change no matter how adamant your refusal to see it may be.